Don't stay with someone who is not caring

Some people are great at being partners, and some just aren’t. Once they’ve known you through all the seasons, they settle down into taking you for granted. They haven’t got time for your problems – if they’ve even noticed that you’re not usual jolly self. They don’t bring you flowers any more, or suggest a romantic evening out, or spoil you on your birthday. In short they don’t care enough.

Don't belittle your partner



This is so sad, and I bet you know people who do it. I certainly do know people who do that are, I don’t do it – I think it’s a terrible thing. They put their partner down in front of other people, belittle them, and make them feel small. You wonder what they’re doing with that person if they think so little of them, although I’m not sure that what they say is really what they’re thinking. They just derive some kind of pleasure from humiliating their partner. I've known some people do it in a big way and other in a small way. I've known people do it just occasionally because they’re angry with their partner over some petty argument.

Take things slow

The major reason relationships fails is because the woman falls in love with him and try to get serious with him too soon. Yes, you want to spend as much time as you can with him, especially early on in the relationship, but never tell him you're planning on buying a house together, getting engaged, married, or even having children with him. It's alright to have dreams, but you don't want to reveal them to him because he might get scared away. You always want to get to know each other before you start bringing things up about the future.

Get over the past before you get on with it

We all get battered and bruised by life, that’s inevitable. Some of us come off worse than others. Of course, it’s the scars that give us character, so they’re not all bad in the long run. But in the short term we may need to recover before we re-enter the fray.

Never stop trying to be attractive




I am very sure, you want your partner looks well groomed and attractive as when you first met them, and that’s understandable. And if you want them to make the effort for you, you need to do the same thing for them. I’m not only talking about looks, but also about your behavior and the way you talk to them. The softness of your voice and all those little endearments. These things are all part of our attractiveness, and it’s not fair on your partner if you switch them all off after a while. You wouldn’t thank them doing the same thing to you.

Why you shouldn't act like your partner's parent

You should be a lot of things to your partner: friend, lover, companion, confidant (e), ally, and comforter. One thing you shouldn't be is their parent. They’re grown-up and they don’t need one of those any more, at least not beyond and they've got already.

Don't date them if you are not compatible

People should be warned of the dangers of dating someone with vast differences. you should not jump into a relationship instantly, you need to find out more about your partner to ensure you are compatible with them. Of course men and women think differently and have a lot of differences. Yet some partners are perfectly compatible with each other. If you choose to be with a partner you not compatible with the relationship will fails after sometime.