Why you always get dumped after sex

What men don’t want women to know is that, almost immediately, they put women into one of two categories: “good time only” or “worthwhile.” And the minute he slides you into that “good time only” category, you’ll almost never come back out.

 If a man feels as though he has to win you over first—sexually with his manliness, wit, or charm—he will place a higher value on you. Men are possessive. He likes knowing that other men cannot easily get to where he is trying to go. Like he’s Captain Kirk and Christopher Columbus all wrapped up in one, he wants to explore new terrain not trampled on by too many men before him. And he judges whether you make “the rounds” by one thing and one thing only: how quickly you give it up to him.

 

why guys don't value nice girls

Everyone has known a “nice girl.” She is the woman who will overcompensate, giving everything to a man she barely knows, without him having to invest much in the relationship. She’s the woman who gives blindly because she wants so much for her attentions to be reciprocated. She’s the woman who goes along with what she thinks her man will like or want because she wants to keep the relationship at all costs. Every woman, at some point, has been there.

Certainly, the average fashion magazine gives women ridiculous relationship advice that makes it easy to understand why women are so eager to overcompensate: “Play hard to get, then cook him a four-course meal . . . bake him Valentine’s cookies with exotic sprinkles shipped from Malaysia (just like Martha Stewart). Don’t forget the little doilies and the organic strawberries that you drove two hours to get. Then serve it all to him on the second date, wearing a black lace nightie.” And what is this a recipe for? Disaster.

What every women love in a man

It's not just about being tall, dark and handsome. There are certain 'manly' qualities about guys that can make any woman go weak in her knees. And while you may think it's all about the looks, guess what? There's more. It's a potent mix of both, physical attributes and of course, that all important emotional touch. Here, we tell you about six points you need to heed.



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Well groomed
Yes, we said tall but the reality is that height is really not as important a factor as how you present yourself. Just like guys like a women who is well turned out, women too dig guys who ensure that they are perfectly groomed a la Leonardo DiCaprio. The basic funda women believe in is that if you are careful enough to take care of yourself, they can trust you to take care of them. So, remember guys, sloppy dressing, uncombed hair, dirty nails, smelly socks, stained shirts or jeans and the likes are an absolute no-no when you are trying to make that all important impression on someone from the opposite sex.

Show them you care
Women need to be constantly reassured that they are loved and cared for. Acts like holding their hand while walking down the road, watching the sunset, an occasional hug and peck on the cheeks and making sure that they cross the road safely mean that you are proud to be seen with them and care for them. Remember, not displaying your affection openly is a sign that you are ashamed of who you are with. However, beware of being crass while displaying you affections

Respect
There’s no question of this, if you disrespect her you may as well throw the relationship out of the window right now. It’s not only respect for her but it’s respect for yourself as well. If you let people walk all over you then you are not respecting yourself and this is a turn off for women.

Attractiveness
This is something you are born with and it’s also something that is very subjective. Everyone has an attractive feature about them and rest assured someone will be attracted to you because of it. However if you let yourself go and don’t really care about yourself, you’ll be dropped like a hot potato.

Show her your love always
A woman has a need that comes before all other needs, and that is love. It isn’t food, it isn’t money, it isn’t appearance, it isn’t anything else but love. Un-ending, never ceasing, always repeating, never taken-for-granted, expressed love. She wants to be your princess, and wants you to treat her like your most treasured possession. A woman is always in love deficit. A womans need for love is a bottomless well.
Everything else are positive additions, and of course all are important, but if you leave a woman feeling un-loved or neglected, folks, she is out the door.

Love and Women are inseperable. They are actually the same thing. Love is the basic mission of womanhood. So guys, if you want a woman, you have to give her more love than anyone deserves. It ain’t fair, but that is the way it is. But, if you do this, no one gets hurt!

Lack of trust and it effect on relationship

Trust is very important in a relationship. If your partner does not trust you, things will not work. It is impossible to have a close, intimate relationship when people do not trust their partners. Trust involves knowing that a partner has your best interest at heart.

Don't date them if you are not compatible

People should be warned of the dangers of dating someone with vast differences. you should not jump into a relationship instantly, you need to find out more about your partner to ensure you are compatible with them. Of course men and women think differently and have a lot of differences. Yet some partners are perfectly compatible with each other. If you choose to be with a partner you not compatible with the relationship will fails after sometime.


Express you feelings

A person cannot respect your feelings if you do not express them. Don't expect the other person will just know what to do or understand how you'll feel. Wearing rose-colored glasses in the beginning of a relationship could be leather. Often, as a passive partner you are afraid of expressing your feeling because you don't want to rock the “happiness” boat. “Gosh,” you say to yourself, “if I tell her again I don't like it when she calls at work, I'll probably hurt her feelings, or she might not call at all anymore.

You Can't Make Someone Love You

It’s possible this is one of the hardest things to accept when it comes to matters of the heart. You find the person you’ve been looking for all your life. Trouble is, they don’t seem to have realized it.

Maybe you met recently and you’re head over heels, but they don’t seem very keen. You’re hanging on desperately, sure that they must soon realize you are made for each other …     Or maybe you’ve actually been together as a couple for years – they are very fond of you, after all, and being with you is easy – but deep down you know they don’t really love you. Sooner or, maybe, later they’ll tell you that things just aren’t working out, but you don’t want to hear it. You try to persuade them to give you another chance. Maybe you try to change, to become the person they really want. It’s all a bit humiliating really, but you don’t see it like that. You think it’s worth it to win their love.