How to be an Alpha Male

An alpha male is a guy in the society with the highest rank. The Alpha Male, the real man, a man’s man, a warrior, a stand-up guy. It doesn't matter what you call him, he’s a leader, the guy others look to for motivation, inspiration, and often with a hint of jealousy. He’s the man women want, without intention the center of attention.

Here are the characteristics that make a man the alpha.

Be confident

If you think highly of yourself and believe unquestionably in your own capabilities, men and women alike will respond to you. Do not confuse confidence with arrogance. Confidence demonstrates quiet inner strength, surety, and reliability. Arrogance is just low self-esteem turned outwards, and perception people will have see is that of a hollow, insecure man, the very antithesis of the alpha male.

Decide what you will and won't tolerate from people 

It's incredibly important you know where your limits are. e.g., if a woman teases you a little bit in a conversation, that's fine, you can deal with it. But if you're not in the mood for teasing girls and she's really pressing you, you'll have to set her straight and let her know that isn't cool.

Learn to communicate what you won't tolerate with grace

What we just said in above though doesn't mean that you're alpha by telling a girl who's teasing too hard that she'd better knock it off or else, or that you're alpha by back-turning her or walking away. That stuff's just rude and/or silly, and it's universally childish (and weak in its childishness... it isn't what a man would do). Instead, learn to be subtle... if she over-teases you, you shrug a little, roll your eyes to the side, and let your attention drift off... it's now her job to reengage you and bring you back into things.


The alpha male has a purpose

This may be his most defining trait. Where many wander through life trying to find their Self, the alpha male is too busy creating his Self. Every day he does something to bring himself closer to his goal. He isn't a wanderer, he’s going places; it’s so obvious that everyone around him can see it.

Go for what you want FAST
While the fake alphas are busting their asses posturing and trying to look tough and sound dominant, you start talking to the cutest girl there, and within a few minutes invite her to go sit with you. And twenty or thirty minutes after that, you invite her to go have a nightcap with you, and the two of you leave and head back to your place. Fast, easy, effective. And don't worry, everyone else notices -- people really do ultimately pay more attention to the results others produce than the reactions they get. And everybody sees the guys full of hot air standing around trying to be alpha, while the actual alpha male (or, in some cases, nomad) goes and takes his woman and leaves

Learn how to flirt

Knowing how to forge a romantic connection is essential to being seen as an alpha male. Being confident, accomplished, and attractive doesn’t necessarily mean that you’ve got what it takes to interact with a

potential mate, but will provide you a huge advantage

Above all, be a leader

This means not only taking charge of a situation, but doing it well. Start in your immediate surroundings by being a leader in the workplace, helping your team perform, or even asserting yourself as your dog’s pack leader. Practice being the kind of leader that people will want to follow—and not just the first one who volunteered for the job.

How to tell if your girlfriend is a golddigger

A gold digger is someone who will latch on to a person who can provide gifts, expensive vacations, and dinners at fancy restaurants, etc. In exchange, they will often pretend to be interested in you. Most gold diggers have an attitude that they have to be taken care of by you. And by “taken care of” I mean taking care of her daily expenses, credit card bills and other special needs. And, this my friend can very often cost the moon.The following is a list of how to tell if your girlfriend is a gold-digger.

Your girlfriend is out of your "league".

Remember when you were in high school or college and couldn't get a date with certain types of women. None of the beauty queens at school gave you the time of day. Yet, as soon as you signed that multi-million dollar contract, every model, beauty queen and fantasy girl came a running. If your girlfriend fits this description, watch out. She's a gold digger. She would never date you if you were gas attendant. Does this mean you can't date or marry up? Of course, not - just make sure your new gal is only one rung above you.

Your girlfriend treats you like a walking ATM machine.

Every time you turn around, the new girlfriend has a crisis or need that requires money. You're a generous guy, so you don't mind helping her out. Yet, the little voice in your head is saying 'this chick thinks you are made of money.' Don't ignore it. If a woman treats you like an ATM machine and is always making financial withdrawals, she is a gold digger. Avoid her like the plague and find someone who likes you for you.

She never offers to pay.

She never offers to pay and only says thank you occasionally…as if she’s entitled to your spending. A man should pay for the first date and a thank you is necessary. In terms of identifying diggers, a thank you after a small dinner means more than her going down on you when you get her back to the crib. If after several dates she has never offered to pay for anything, you should be suspicious.

She is never around when times are bad

Gold diggers are never around when times are bad. So if your bank balance has hit rock bottom or your merger didn’t go as well as you planned, the gold digger is out that door. If you’re going through some legal issues and you need some emotional support, call your mom because your gold digging partner is probably out at a party looking for the next victim.

 She only lets you hit when you buy her something.
If the only time you get some is after an expensive date or if she only hooks you up with brains after she gets an expensive gift, you probably have a digger on your hands. She is attaching sex to money and this is part of gold diggings 101.

She only wants to go to expensive restaurants.
After impressing her on the first or second date, take her to a few inexpensive places like Red Lobster and see how she reacts. If she reacts unappreciative or complains, she is either a digger, or may be too high maintenance. Don't be a punk or weak for the panties and call the digger back. If you do, you may as well hire a dime quality call girl which will save you some money and more than a few migraine headaches in the long run.

Finally remember this rule: The best way to fish out a gold-digger is to starve them out.

                                                                     

                                                                     

How to make a girl fall inlove with you

Here is the way to become a One-Up in a relationship -here is how to make a girl fall in love with you. While I don’t recommend you put yourself in that position, as it may destroy the intimacy you could create with her and throw the relationship out of balance, it’s good to have some of these techniques in your toolbox, should you ever need them… in case the relationship is starting to tip in her favor and you need to put some weight on the other scale pan.

Why girls like bad boys

The fact is, the vast majority of men are nice, unassuming, friendly guys totally lacking in any kind of an "edge" with women. And women get familiar with this type of man quickly and know what to expect with him – and they know what they'll get with him is not exciting. It's very calm, normal, and average. Bad boys, though, they're different, and women don't meet a whole lot of them. Bad boys are wildcards. They could be scoundrels with hearts of gold, or they could be merciless hedonists or cold-hearted users and abusers. A girl doesn't know, and that's part of the excitement.

How to flirt with a girl

Flirting with girls is absolutely key in sparking attraction. A lot of guys do not know how to flirt with a girl or the right way to flirt with a girl. Paying a girl compliments is not flirting, and will have an adverse effect unless the girl is already attracted to you. Flirting keeps a girl interested in you and your conversation. It is a fun and playful way to stimulate her mind when communicating with you.

Flirting is communicating by teasing and ‘banter’. A playful way that suggests to her you are not really interested in her and makes you a challenge. It makes her think you couldn’t care about what she thinks of you and this makes you stand out from the majority of guys who do care what she thinks. They constantly pay her compliments because that’s what they believe she wants to hear and they believe this will create attraction. It doesn’t. Mastering flirting gives you the upper hand.

How to talk to a girl

If you know how to talk to a girl when you meet for the very first time, picking up a girl will become easier and you will find their reaction to you will be a positive one. You should come across as caring, kind hearted and thoughtful and try not to flatter them too often. Treat the girl as if she is just another person, give her no special treatment.
Making her feel comfortable with you is the best way on how to talk to a girl for the first time. Try to keep the conversation flowing, fun and try not to become nervous as this can create awkwardness.

How to make a girl gealous the Dos and Don't

Wouldn't it be great to have the girl you want green-eyed with envy and madly competing for you?
It'd be awesome... right?
Well, as you know, there are two sides to every coin. On the one side you have the oftentimes huge spike in attraction and investment you gain from a girl when she realizes she's jealous over you.
And on the other side... you risk becoming too aloof, too hard to get, and losing her altogether.
But, no risk, no reward, as they say. Learning how to make a girl jealous can be another mighty weapon in your seducer's arsenal. If you're not careful though, it can be a weapon you end up using with devastating effect... on yourself.

How to Know if a Girl Likes You

Not sure what those glances, smiles and looks from a girl you fancy might mean? Hoping you have a secret admirer? Follow these steps to find out if the girl you have your heart set on really likes you.

Always be yourself. If a girl likes a fabricated you, she'll soon scratch beneath that veneer you've tried to use and won't be impressed. If she's not into you the way you are, don't date her.

How to be a guy every girl wants

Girls don't like nice guys. Girls do like bad boys. That means you ought to go turn yourself into a complete jerk, right?

No, that's not what that means. One of the tragic downfalls of human logic is the tendency to default to black-and-white thinking. "If women don't like nice guys, I should become a total jerk and they'll love me!" That's what most guys who've been nice guys too long tend to think once they start coming to grips with how women actually choose the men they like.